Before you were a kid, people talked and shared secrets and inner desires with one another. What is ignorant, what isn't? Discussion about a king? A president?

Before you were a kid, people talked and shared secrets and inner desires with one another. What is ignorant, what isn't? Discussion about a king? A president? What sort of people you want to be around? What is dissident can become a movement and become superior. How do you decide which is which?