There is a massive region encompassing both Instagram filtered perfection as well as gallows humor. I agree completely that positivity can be forced to toxic l

There is a massive region encompassing both Instagram filtered perfection as well as gallows humor. I agree completely that positivity can be forced to toxic levels, but I also see folks drop a plate or get something on their shirt and it’s the worst thing ever and the idea adopting a “whoops, oh well” laughing it off outlook appears to them as forced and toxic positivity. Positivity is great and not letting things get you down is really important if not taken too far. So what’s the measure for too far versus not far enough? I feel like I see too far and not far enough on equal measure in my peer group.