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I agree with your point that we shouldn't idolize people who make very risky personal sacrifices without framing it in the truth that most who do fail. At the

I agree with your point that we shouldn't idolize people who make very risky personal sacrifices without framing it in the truth that most who do fail. At the same time, I read this particular post as much less about "look how hard I hustled and because of that I'm a winner" and much more about gratitude towards the HN community and the appreciating the luck that enabled them to be one of the rare winners. It's more "even though we hustled we were still on track to lose until we got lucky and supported from others." I think that's an excellent sentiment to share.

hn_grenade 6y ago
Come on, sheep, don't idolize them at all, just go back to being cautious and in place, it's what you were born to do. Tell yourself that it was because they were given such and such a "privilege", or had such and such an easier thing, and you had a hard thing, and therefore it never could have ever been you, and therefore feel better at your own failed dreams. Or tell yourself that you are smart, and they are dumb and simply lucky, because most fail. Either way, find a way to spin it so you are right and they wrong, and definitely don't actually reflect on how you could get some of what they have, nor improve yourself in any way. Remind yourself instead why their success is not actually so good, or so special, and especially remember to tell yourself that it's not and it's never your fault if you don't succeed. Align with your true nature and surrender to the inevitability of your powerlessness. This is right, for you, oh sheep. This is your good path. Don't fall into the trap of hoping, or idolizing, or being inspired. Never dream. Remember to always be critical and find fault with another's success, in order to protect yourself. This is your way. Go forth and just be.

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I agree with your point that we shouldn't idolize people who make very risky personal sacrifices without framing it in the truth that most who do fail. At the

by munificent 6y ago

hn_grenade 6y ago
Come on, sheep, don't idolize them at all, just go back to being cautious and in place, it's what you were born to do. Tell yourself that it was because they were given such and such a "privilege", or had such and such an easier thing, and you had a hard thing, and therefore it never could have ever been you, and therefore feel better at your own failed dreams. Or tell yourself that you are smart, and they are dumb and simply lucky, because most fail. Either way, find a way to spin it so you are right and they wrong, and definitely don't actually reflect on how you could get some of what they have, nor improve yourself in any way. Remind yourself instead why their success is not actually so good, or so special, and especially remember to tell yourself that it's not and it's never your fault if you don't succeed. Align with your true nature and surrender to the inevitability of your powerlessness. This is right, for you, oh sheep. This is your good path. Don't fall into the trap of hoping, or idolizing, or being inspired. Never dream. Remember to always be critical and find fault with another's success, in order to protect yourself. This is your way. Go forth and just be.