@IfOnlyYouKnew Very level headed and great comment. It’s amazing how much victim blaming HN does on almost any topic. Separately, IMO, previous girlfriends or

@IfOnlyYouKnew Very level headed and great comment. It’s amazing how much victim blaming HN does on almost any topic. Separately, IMO, previous girlfriends or friends, etc. won’t go out of their way to spit on someone’s grave. I think the exception is when someone finally feels safe to speak out that they were abused or if the person was a true POS. Not sure why the default logic in this case is to automatically assume the exes are bad mouthing the deceased just because they can. Sure, it happens, but in this case there were two separate first-hand accounts and from the girl’s parents.