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> just unmatch the pair say after three days of the last message. This is a good point. However, some women (due to men spamming them) don't have notifications

> just unmatch the pair say after three days of the last message. This is a good point. However, some women (due to men spamming them) don't have notifications turned on, so genuinely don't get around to seeing a message until they have time to sit down and scroll through the pile Also (as I'm sure you know), anything that can be used as a "measure of cool" will be used as just that. And having a huge list of matches can be a huge self-esteem boost to some. I agree with your point though. It can be tiresome to have to periodically clean out matches every so often

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> However, some women (due to men spamming them) don't have notifications turned on That's why I wrote "if the other person is active on the dating app and isn't responding to you, just unmatch the pair say after" > anything that can be used as a "measure of cool" will be used as just that. Agreed. I have been guilty of this as well, though I also do realize that it is still a human being at the other end and giving a closure by unmatching is much better than leaving it hanging. > It can be tiresome to have to periodically clean out matches every so often I think more than cleaning out the matches, if you were interested in someone and were having a conversation with them and suddenly they disappear, you don't know if that's just because of being busy. The delay might be just anxiousness for the other person.