Frequent communication with coworkers is part of doing the job, and just like you wouldn't refer to a male boss with "Mrs." some people would prefer being calle

Frequent communication with coworkers is part of doing the job, and just like you wouldn't refer to a male boss with "Mrs." some people would prefer being called differently than what most would assume by default. I don't see how that is wrong. And usually it's not about being "whatever you want", people are what they are.