Are you arguing that granting a particular kind of same-sex union involves "subjugating" people who opposed it? I (and most people I think) use the word subjug

Are you arguing that granting a particular kind of same-sex union involves "subjugating" people who opposed it? I (and most people I think) use the word subjugation to mean "bring under domination or control, especially by conquest: the invaders had soon subjugated most of the native population." Traditional examples of subjugation include occupations and forced religion.