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Learned this the hard way. Spent the last 7 years grinding text books resulting in a place on a Masters in CS and a ~$200k income while working remotely from th

Learned this the hard way. Spent the last 7 years grinding text books resulting in a place on a Masters in CS and a ~$200k income while working remotely from the UK (without a degree, at 26). Whole purpose was to earn as much as I could and it took over my life. Now I’m on antidepressants and overweight. Recently quit my uni course and job, and settled for a role around $65k with a New Years resolution to never be a workaholic again. Feeling better already :)

qmmmur 6y ago
What did you work in if you don't mind me asking?
- throwaway91627 6y ago
  Was a software developer but realised it’s much easier to be competitive, if you’re a good but not great dev, to get higher paying SDET roles.
  - randomopining 6y ago
    Don’t they get paid much less? Let’s say you’re a 7/10 dev, wouldn’t you get paid more as a dev?
    - throwaway91627 6y ago
      Honestly, no. I found salaries were similar for the same level of role (maybe a little more in dev) but I was able to get much more senior SDET roles which counteracted this. Instead of being a mid-level dev, I was a senior/lead SDET approaching staff level. Edit: When I made the shift initially from dev to SDET, I had a 50% pay rise. In London I regularly get approached for £85k/$100k roles as an SDET. True devs might earn more than that at the same companies but it’s already much higher than most devs earn in the UK, and I’m not experienced enough to compete for the dev counterpart roles.
supernihil 6y ago
this is really interesting!!! i am considering a drop exactly like that except from 100k to 62k in order to clear up the anxiety induced helltrain i'm currently on, asked about it here: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25765287 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25765287 sounds like you made the right choice, i am getting more and more convinced about sacrificing the career to get time for treating myself and the family better
- throwaway91627 6y ago
  I think it’s really worth considering, but don’t do it off of my post :) Chat to your family about it but also consider speaking to your doctor about anti anxiety counselling/medication. Helped me get through a lot of it.
  - supernihil 6y ago
    dont worry, not doing these decisions lightheaded :-) just wanted to express that i admire the thought of skipping the "money making mission" i am on to take care of the real things i care about being my family and my head. I hope you all get a great 2021!
slumpt_ 6y ago
Considering same here. 300k valley salary ready to leave the valley and make maybe 100k in a country that isn’t fucked.
Dracophoenix 6y ago
How did you find a job that paid that much?
- throwaway91627 6y ago
  Just applying for roles in SF!

qmmmur 6y ago

What did you work in if you don't mind me asking?

throwaway91627 6y ago
Was a software developer but realised it’s much easier to be competitive, if you’re a good but not great dev, to get higher paying SDET roles.
- randomopining 6y ago
  Don’t they get paid much less? Let’s say you’re a 7/10 dev, wouldn’t you get paid more as a dev?
  - throwaway91627 6y ago
    Honestly, no. I found salaries were similar for the same level of role (maybe a little more in dev) but I was able to get much more senior SDET roles which counteracted this. Instead of being a mid-level dev, I was a senior/lead SDET approaching staff level. Edit: When I made the shift initially from dev to SDET, I had a 50% pay rise. In London I regularly get approached for £85k/$100k roles as an SDET. True devs might earn more than that at the same companies but it’s already much higher than most devs earn in the UK, and I’m not experienced enough to compete for the dev counterpart roles.

supernihil 6y ago

this is really interesting!!! i am considering a drop exactly like that except from 100k to 62k in order to clear up the anxiety induced helltrain i'm currently on, asked about it here: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25765287 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25765287 sounds like you made the right choice, i am getting more and more convinced about sacrificing the career to get time for treating myself and the family better

throwaway91627 6y ago
I think it’s really worth considering, but don’t do it off of my post :) Chat to your family about it but also consider speaking to your doctor about anti anxiety counselling/medication. Helped me get through a lot of it.
- supernihil 6y ago
  dont worry, not doing these decisions lightheaded :-) just wanted to express that i admire the thought of skipping the "money making mission" i am on to take care of the real things i care about being my family and my head. I hope you all get a great 2021!

slumpt_ 6y ago

Considering same here. 300k valley salary ready to leave the valley and make maybe 100k in a country that isn’t fucked.

Dracophoenix 6y ago

How did you find a job that paid that much?

throwaway91627 6y ago
Just applying for roles in SF!