My wife is pregnant so I want to avoid complications and that's why I've been stricter on social distancing - but assuming your baby is more mature and you don'

My wife is pregnant so I want to avoid complications and that's why I've been stricter on social distancing - but assuming your baby is more mature and you don't have preexisting conditions/are in 30s why would you be avoiding doctor/dentist - it seems excessive. From what I understand under 30 there's a greater risk of complications from flu sideeffects than COVID. You shouldn't be visiting risk groups anyway and I'm not saying go out to party but avoiding useful activities seems excessive. My wife won't be vaccinated till she starts breastfeeding and neither will my infant buy I won't avoid doctor appointments because of it.