I was -- depending on the person harassing me -- the fat kid, the gay kid, the goth kid, or some combination thereof for all of my school years. I didn't have

I was -- depending on the person harassing me -- the fat kid, the gay kid, the goth kid, or some combination thereof for all of my school years. I didn't have a single date throughout school, and I hated every single second of it. And yet, I didn't use any of that an excuse to be an asshole. I learned the skills I needed to succeed socially and treated others with respect regardless of race, gender, etc. Why is it unreasonable to expect that from every other person?