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I think she is asking you to help take the pressure off her. She feels pressure to do something and is panicking. Tell her she doesn't have to do anything at a
by abbasmehdi 15y ago
I think she is asking you to help take the pressure off her. She feels pressure to do something and is panicking.
Tell her she doesn't have to do anything at all and that's ok, or can do anything she wants, ANYTHING - nothing is out of reach!! Bring her to a place where she starts to think she does not need the money or societal approval, all is needs is to find and follow her true passion. She will herself come up with the ideas that honestly you can't think of in a 100 years, and your job then would be to facilitate her ideas into reality.
- jdavid 15y agoOn this line of thought, she sees my that my friends are successful and as a gal with a healthy sense of competition wants to live up to her ability. Also, being an entrepreneur and taking risks and being bold about my direction inadvertently put's pressure on her to do what her calling is.
- abbasmehdi 15y agoIMO the first step towards happiness, fulfillment and eventual prosperity is dropping out of the rat race and being true to oneself. Everybody wants to but very few can. Why does she think your friends are successful, because they're rich, or because they've found their passion and to them work feels like pleasure/recreation? Would she consider them successful if they hated their work but made twice as much? Or if they loved what they did but were making just enough to get by?
- jdavid 15y agono, this is not a money thing. it's because they are doing something in their field of passion.