> I'm trying to do this in as harmonious way as I possibly can, but I'm a bit worried that getting really contentious about it might have negative repercussions

> I'm trying to do this in as harmonious way as I possibly can, but I'm a bit worried that getting really contentious about it might have negative repercussions. You mentioned "contentious". Are you concerned that the conversation can't remain friendly, professional, and cordial for some reason?