I think the statement is that some people shy away from leadership since they don't know how not to be bossy. Bossinesss isn't exploitation, it's a style of le

I think the statement is that some people shy away from leadership since they don't know how not to be bossy. Bossinesss isn't exploitation, it's a style of leadership -- giving orders (often orders that are too specific), taking down someone when something is not done in "just the right way", etc.