Seeing a few comments below, I'm seeing reactions to perhaps two different 'shames'. It feels like we may have shame for some aspect of ourselves or our inhere

Seeing a few comments below, I'm seeing reactions to perhaps two different 'shames'. It feels like we may have shame for some aspect of ourselves or our inherent condition (someone wrote about people 'shaming' him for being bald??), but there's also shame for your actions. Experiencing shame for some aspect of your existence or something beyond your control (appearance, etc) seems a bit odd, but obviously has an impact on people. Experiencing shame for your actions - these are generally under your control, and seems more reasonable.