I've been surprised that there hasn't been any societal "aha" moment about how awful the lives of misfit loners can be. Still the same old "get out there / be

I've been surprised that there hasn't been any societal "aha" moment about how awful the lives of misfit loners can be. Still the same old "get out there / be yourself" ideology... even as people who've never been isolated begin experience how bad it can be, there somehow still remains the belief that misfit loners would choose that over the obviously super easy socializing/popularity games that humans play.