but somehow one gets a free pass to let anyone pretend to do it, but the other not. I think you're operating under the false assumption that simulating sexual

but somehow one gets a free pass to let anyone pretend to do it, but the other not. I think you're operating under the false assumption that simulating sexual violence is taboo. I'm not sure that's a given: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_fantasy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_fantasy