You should watch the documentary Children of the Sun, which describes attempts by early kibbutz movements in Israel to raise children communally and not directl

You should watch the documentary Children of the Sun, which describes attempts by early kibbutz movements in Israel to raise children communally and not directly by their parents. There were upsides (the children grew up with characteristics that we would think of as strong and independent) and downsides (clear early-childhood trauma, with unclear consequences).