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This is just plain false. Google attractiveness and bald. Lowering your possible attractiveness by 75% to 50% is not an easy choice. Your confidence has nothing

This is just plain false. Google attractiveness and bald. Lowering your possible attractiveness by 75% to 50% is not an easy choice. Your confidence has nothing to do with it. Especially in a world where people are chosen via pictures. It works for some men. I might be attracted to DuWayne Johnson but there are plenty of men who look awful bald.

kreeben 6y ago
>> there are plenty of men who look awful bald That's just your opinion though. It's certainly not mine. In fact, I think bald people look cool. I also think a lot of them have much more confidence in themselves than I do and I have a full set of hair. All people have hills to climb, though. I just wish people who are insecure because of their lack of fur on top wasn't. Only douche-bags will ever hold that against you. Don't try to please those people. They are jerks.
- gfxgirl 6y ago
  I said 50-75% not 100%. How many other things in life would you lower your chances of success 50-75% if you could easily avoid it? The polls show 75% to 44% of women don't find bald men attractive. I'm going to guess those numbers are worse for bald women. Solving baldness is probably much easier than changing culture.
  - throwaway98797 6y ago
    Everyone can have a six pack. Not everyone can have hair. The improvement in atteractiveness from losing weight for the “average” USA person far exceeds hair. So if you want to look better focus on what you can control and lose body fat.
    - ZephyrBlu 6y ago
      > Everyone can have a six pack Not really true. Some people's genetics make it difficult for a 6 pack to show even at a low body fat %. > Not everyone can have hair I mean, this is the whole problem that is trying to be solved here. Imagine if everyone _could_ have hair!
      - throwaway98797 6y ago
        the value of hair would decrease if everyone had it.
seibelj 6y ago
Rather than obsess over something you can’t fix (unless and if there is ever a cure), it is better to accept reality and move on. Losing your hair is very low on the list of bad things that can happen to you - I don’t even need to bother listing worse things. If hair loss is your biggest problem, maybe a healthy dose of perspective is the cure!
- HenryKissinger 6y ago
  > Rather than obsess over something you can’t fix (unless and if there is ever a cure), it is better to accept reality and move on The entire history of human progress is about finding solutions to problems that seemed like they couldn't be solved. Humans will always try to shape reality to their liking.
  - ben_w 6y ago
    “The reasonable man adapts himself to the world: the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.” - George Bernard Shaw
machinelabo 6y ago
Tough question: Isn't baldness a genetic trait just like the pigment of the skin? Are you X% less attractive if you have a certain pigment of the skin? Person's baldness was given to them at birth. They had no say in it just like the pigmentation color. What's the objective difference?
- IanClarke 6y ago
  Yeah, baldness must have a use / evolutionary advantage (cooling, maybe) and isn't an illness. Like having 2 arms and 2 legs, beeing gay or having black skin color.
DrOctagon 6y ago
The confidence I gained from shaving my head far outweighed any real/perceived loss of attractiveness. Walking around trying to hide the fact I was going bald was soul destroying. Shaving it was owning it and it honestly set me free.

kreeben 6y ago

>> there are plenty of men who look awful bald That's just your opinion though. It's certainly not mine. In fact, I think bald people look cool. I also think a lot of them have much more confidence in themselves than I do and I have a full set of hair. All people have hills to climb, though. I just wish people who are insecure because of their lack of fur on top wasn't. Only douche-bags will ever hold that against you. Don't try to please those people. They are jerks.

gfxgirl 6y ago
I said 50-75% not 100%. How many other things in life would you lower your chances of success 50-75% if you could easily avoid it? The polls show 75% to 44% of women don't find bald men attractive. I'm going to guess those numbers are worse for bald women. Solving baldness is probably much easier than changing culture.
- throwaway98797 6y ago
  Everyone can have a six pack. Not everyone can have hair. The improvement in atteractiveness from losing weight for the “average” USA person far exceeds hair. So if you want to look better focus on what you can control and lose body fat.
  - ZephyrBlu 6y ago
    > Everyone can have a six pack Not really true. Some people's genetics make it difficult for a 6 pack to show even at a low body fat %. > Not everyone can have hair I mean, this is the whole problem that is trying to be solved here. Imagine if everyone _could_ have hair!
    - throwaway98797 6y ago
      the value of hair would decrease if everyone had it.

seibelj 6y ago

Rather than obsess over something you can’t fix (unless and if there is ever a cure), it is better to accept reality and move on. Losing your hair is very low on the list of bad things that can happen to you - I don’t even need to bother listing worse things. If hair loss is your biggest problem, maybe a healthy dose of perspective is the cure!

HenryKissinger 6y ago
> Rather than obsess over something you can’t fix (unless and if there is ever a cure), it is better to accept reality and move on The entire history of human progress is about finding solutions to problems that seemed like they couldn't be solved. Humans will always try to shape reality to their liking.
- ben_w 6y ago
  “The reasonable man adapts himself to the world: the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.” - George Bernard Shaw

machinelabo 6y ago

Tough question: Isn't baldness a genetic trait just like the pigment of the skin? Are you X% less attractive if you have a certain pigment of the skin? Person's baldness was given to them at birth. They had no say in it just like the pigmentation color. What's the objective difference?

IanClarke 6y ago
Yeah, baldness must have a use / evolutionary advantage (cooling, maybe) and isn't an illness. Like having 2 arms and 2 legs, beeing gay or having black skin color.

DrOctagon 6y ago

The confidence I gained from shaving my head far outweighed any real/perceived loss of attractiveness. Walking around trying to hide the fact I was going bald was soul destroying. Shaving it was owning it and it honestly set me free.