It’s neither ;-). If you’ve passed your midlife crisis, you have all the resources you need to answer that question yourself. And you’re the only person who c

It’s neither ;-). If you’ve passed your midlife crisis, you have all the resources you need to answer that question yourself. And you’re the only person who can. If you want input, there’s more than enough actual wisdom literature out there to tap into. You’re working backwards from death at this point, not forward from birth. And that is a very good thing. Hint: money starts becoming an increasingly unreal thing, if it ever was real to begin with.