Sounds like her true form encompasses the entire universe of possibilities, so any time you limit her choices you are effectively killing off a part of her cons

Sounds like her true form encompasses the entire universe of possibilities, so any time you limit her choices you are effectively killing off a part of her consciousness, for no reason but your own convenience or some vain attempt to prepare her for some vague 'real world'. By preventing her action you are literally denying her right to fully exist.