I think the original problem with all of this is that we see arguments as fights that we need to win. This is wrong. We should argue to understand each other be

I think the original problem with all of this is that we see arguments as fights that we need to win. This is wrong. We should argue to understand each other better and to come up with better ideas than we separately could. I've written a longer piece on how fallacies affect how we argue: https://ochronus.online/how-to-stop-winning-arguments/ https://ochronus.online/how-to-stop-winning-arguments/