> "when a special project comes up that needs leadership." You think complimenting people is horrible, people should be publicly shamed, insulted and blamed fo

> "when a special project comes up that needs leadership." You think complimenting people is horrible, people should be publicly shamed, insulted and blamed for the failure of the team, and fancy yourself for a leadership role? Grief. Instead, perhaps take the "if you're on time, you're late, being early is the minimum" self-satisfied chip off your shoulder and realise that blaming Bob for you being a doormat and working on the weekend is you being "a bit of a douche".