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> We then read them all out followed by a round of applause for each one of them That may be good for team building and make some people feel better but, perso
by yiyus 6y ago
> We then read them all out followed by a round of applause for each one of them
That may be good for team building and make some people feel better but, personally, I would find that situation very uncomfortable.
- c_s_guy 6y agoI imagine it might also cause adverse effects if someone happens to be missed.
- ImaCake 6y agoI have personally experienced this. My otherwise really good manager had a monthly vote for the best worker in our small team where each vote was publicly announced. I, and another coworker, never got a vote while others got several. Really great way to make some of your workers feel really left out!
- symlinkk 6y agoIf they handed out the award to everyone it would be meaningless
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- eyelidlessness 6y agoOn the contrary: If you have a team member who no one sees fit to find praise for, it’s probably a bad fit. Praise doesn’t need to be superlative to be sincere. Not everyone has to be a “rockstar” to deserve positive validation.
- devilduck 6y agoAwards are already meaningless
- henry_bone 6y agoThe OP was talking about genuine, honest communication. I think these rituals in work teams have the correct idea. Their hearts are in the right place, so to speak, but it doesn't really work perfectly. As you've said some can feel left out. Others might just feel uncomfortable. The idea is good: share the love, highlight good work. But it probably better just to let people know more naturally.
- ImaCake 6y agoAbsolutely. My current workplace is very good at the organic thankyou. I try my best to show gratitude where I can.
- cutemonster 6y agoWhat could have caused you and the other one to not get any votes, at the previous workplace? I'm guessing it was not work performance or anything like that (The votes were publicly announced -- and also who had voted?)
- Natanael_L 6y agoIt can be something simple like having work with more visible impact
- mangamadaiyan 6y ago_Perceived_ impact, if I might add?
- ImaCake 6y agoMe and the other worker were much less willing to work free overtime. The company also had a really dishonest culture and I chafed under that system. I was a bad fit for the job really, so I could have just been what they perceived as bad.
- heneryville 6y agoThis is precisely why leaderboards suck. Instead of picking the single best contributor, do as the OP did and acknowledge all good contributors.
- cjmcqueen 6y agoGratitude is a skill anyone can learn. Accepting compliments is also a skill that anyone can learn. But, both of them take practice. It's okay to feel uncomfortable with something, that doesn't necessarily mean that it's wrong. Sometimes we're just uncomfortable with something because it's not something we've had a lot of experience with.
- yiyus 6y agoExpressing gratitude and accepting compliments are nice skills to have, but making of it a public show is just bad taste, IMO.
- cacois 6y agoOf course you are entitled to your opinion, but "praise in public, punish in private" is a saying for a reason. Praise is more effective in public, and praising one person on the team publicly benefits the entire team, not just that person.
- cutemonster 6y agoThis is more "praise in public, when the boss says so, because the boss says so", though?
- adar 6y agoNothing's stopping you from praising people at other times, is it?
- warent 6y agoNobody is arguing that. The debate is around whether manufactured public praise is tasteless
- memling 6y ago> Nobody is arguing that. The debate is around whether manufactured public praise is tasteless I suppose it can feel that way, but on the other hand forcing oneself to find and appreciate others efforts and good qualities—even if there are perceptibly few of them—can be a good exercise, especially for those of us who are naturally quite critical. While I'd argue that it's a good virtue and intrinsically valuable, the habit is also practically beneficial: people perform better when they're appreciated and recognized; one's ability to form and work with teams is noticeably easier; it's easier to adjust performance and expectations; et c. People often put the cart before the horse when talking about stuff like this. Manufacturing gratitude is doesn't make it less genuine or fundamentally less good.
- blinkeer 6y agoI agree with this to some extent. My issue with the public forum and ritual applause is that it becomes mechanical. In my experience, people are often left out or events are forgotten. I was sometimes baffled at the items that were being expressed, it felt a bit political even. Not saying a public forum like this can't work, just that it seems easy for it to go awry. I've been publicly recognized and appreciated it, I've also received quiet thank you notes. I know I like the latter more.