I look at how my high school friends ended up and it’s amazing how personality traits/biases, career choices, life partners, residency in certain cities and fat

I look at how my high school friends ended up and it’s amazing how personality traits/biases, career choices, life partners, residency in certain cities and fate (or chance) altered our trajectories. One person who I thought would go very far has struggled terribly after he and his spouse were dealt a string of bad hands. Another made a career choice that is poisoning mind and body but is too late to leave now. Others have done well and I don’t think would change anything.