I've been at crossroads at several points in my life and realized that I was in too deep to trust my own decision making to be sound. Getting on the internets

I've been at crossroads at several points in my life and realized that I was in too deep to trust my own decision making to be sound. Getting on the internets and asking total strangers for their opinion helped me snap out of it. Even though I mostly didn't take their advice, being confronted with the aloof views of randos with no stake in my dilemma was what I needed to see the big picture beyond the walls that had already closed in on me. In either of these situations，I'm certain a friend would have been either too compassionate or too afraid to appear immoral to give me the cold, hard truth. Hooray for assholes that don't give a fuck =D