I disagree. I think developing a durable character with strong preferences is what makes you a genuine being. Saying hard NOs to things that don't fit well in

I disagree. I think developing a durable character with strong preferences is what makes you a genuine being. Saying hard NOs to things that don't fit well in your life and not having to come up for excuses for declining. If you are constantly saying yes to everything and everyone and trying everything then you'll never really be complete. The key here is to not blatantly reject anything in front of you but rather respond with "Maybe".