Me too, and I've watched many of my friends go through this as well. Basically, some people have jobs that are analogous to abusive relationships. Easy enough

Me too, and I've watched many of my friends go through this as well. Basically, some people have jobs that are analogous to abusive relationships. Easy enough to get into one when you depend on your job to get money. And it is rarely a good idea to wait until you're "ready" to get out of an abusive relationship.