> Both this and OP depend crucially on the hidden assumption that you have enough money to buy new shoes or a jacket on a whim. It's hardly hidden: > I grew u

> Both this and OP depend crucially on the hidden assumption that you have enough money to buy new shoes or a jacket on a whim. It's hardly hidden: > I grew up very poor, so I was probably primed against the idea of spontaneously buying something to begin with