4 ms·
I got my first puppy (after a lifetime of rescue dogs) almost 2 years ago. I worked long and hard to find a dog with the temperament I wanted, and, have spent
by AdamJacobMuller 6y ago
I got my first puppy (after a lifetime of rescue dogs) almost 2 years ago.
I worked long and hard to find a dog with the temperament I wanted, and, have spent the past 2 years molding him into an amazing dog.
I decided, before I even got him, that I would only neuter him if it was absolutely required for his health or his behavior. At the two year mark (which is in January) I'm fairly sure that it won't ever be required for any kind of behavioral reasons. It hasn't always been perfect and I know at times things would be easier if I HAD neutered him.
I also didn't choose the easiest breed, he is a purebred Parson Russel Terrier
> The whole practice feels archaic and somewhat cruel
I'm not sure its archaic or cruel. For virtually all rescued animals, it's the best path.
> I wonder how much of it is societal/vet pressure rather than in the best interest of the dog/owner
1000% social and vet pressure. In my circle of dog people, who are more conscious than most, being a part of dog agility/sports, I still have people who get hostile when I say that I don't intend to neuter him unless it's absolutely required. They insist his behaviour will turn foul. At first "no way he doesn't become a terror by 1 year old", recently "wait till he's 2," soon I'm sure I'll hear about how awful having an uncastrated 3-year-old will be.
The pressure from my veterinarian was INSANE. Keep in mind this is a vet practice I've been using for over THIRTY years, I've had 9 dogs and 1 cat under their care. The owner/veterinarian who I've known all that time and is a close family friend was strongly in favor. Her associate who I see now as the owner is transitioning out of practice (I've been there that long!) was nearly hostile about my decision and flat-out told me I was wrong and tried to fear-monger me about how I wouldn't be able to control him.
> I understand why people do it
I, too, understand why people do it. It was hard work. It required lots of careful planning to find a dog with the right temperament. It STILL requires lots more work than if I just got him snipped. I will still do it again. It's not for everyone.