You need to ask for lots of advice but ultimately you need to make your own mind up about the situation. This is a hot potato, everyone is going to have an opi

You need to ask for lots of advice but ultimately you need to make your own mind up about the situation. This is a hot potato, everyone is going to have an opinion. So for this reason you need to make your mind up. Source: this thread - there's some very strong opinions here. Get some 121 advice instead, this thread is just guidance only.