That's not what stoicism is. Stoicism has more to do with things that happen to you vs how you treat other people. It's great that you disclaim it a bit with

That's not what stoicism is. Stoicism has more to do with things that happen to you vs how you treat other people. It's great that you disclaim it a bit with "can't think of a better word", but it's just inaccurate. Perhaps "libertarian"? Or "rugged individualist"?