This argument sounds true, but I like to think of myself as being occasionally kind, or helpful, or benevolent.. whatever. And yet I just can't come up with a s

This argument sounds true, but I like to think of myself as being occasionally kind, or helpful, or benevolent.. whatever. And yet I just can't come up with a single example of something like that. In fact I don't believe I even think of myself in categories such as "weak" or "strong". I know I'm extremely averse to conflict, which, I guess, would be considered "weak". I'll let you have your way (within reason), but then that's the last time you'll see me, which is probably not the outcome someone trying to exploit you is hoping for.