> but these sound like a 1970s-era chatbot. HA! Sums up my feelings about the reflect back advice crap I've been reading for years. > Rather, it’s cargo cult

> but these sound like a 1970s-era chatbot. HA! Sums up my feelings about the reflect back advice crap I've been reading for years. > Rather, it’s cargo cult advice: it teaches you to imitate the surface appearance of good listening, but misses what’s actually important, the thing that’s generating that surface appearance. Ok. seriously guys, this is actually a good article. Color me very surprised!