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You should meet some of the women I hang out with. And obviously no one is calling for "no restraints".
by standardUser 6y ago
You should meet some of the women I hang out with. And obviously no one is calling for "no restraints".
- alacombe 6y ago> And obviously no one is calling for "no restraints". I've been with a couple of women I couldn't find limits of, and it's not for the lack of attempts at otherwise considered disgusting practices... and I know for a fact that I'm sexually pretty mild compared to what's out there.
- eloff 6y agoWhat I'm saying is reevaluating bedroom norms and moors is fine, but let's also not make the mistake of thinking our prudish ancestors had it all wrong. I think porn has both good and bad influences - but it is definitely not benign.
- standardUser 6y agoI couldn't disagree more. Our prudish ancestors had it all wrong. Ask the uncountable millions and millions of gay men and women who suffered their whole lives at the hands of those prudes. And what did the prudes gain in return? Bad sex and shame. There is nothing redeeming in an anti-sex perspective.
- eloff 6y agoWhenever you find yourself saying someone is totally wrong, is a good indication you don't understand them. I'm not going to argue with someone who can't see the other side. Presumably you can find some value in some of the values and traditions from the past? You have to acknowledge that our current values are merely an incremental change on what came before. You can't say they were all wrong without saying you're also wrong then.