Don't try to live your life serially. Some people speak of being 30 is like the "rush hour of life", because that's a typical age for academics for starting a f

Don't try to live your life serially. Some people speak of being 30 is like the "rush hour of life", because that's a typical age for academics for starting a family and a career (at the same time). Don't overthink it. If you feel to want to have both in your life, do both at the same time. This especially applies for women, who have a shorter biological window of reproducability. Also try to live "outside your comfort zone". Regularly try new things. For instance: Don't like sports? You might be right, but try different kinds of sports in order to find something which will keep you healthy for a long time. Same applies with many causalities such as food or living standards.