Not the one you asked, but I want to offer two things: How good it is depends on a person and their ability to understand help as opposed to owning other peopl

Not the one you asked, but I want to offer two things: How good it is depends on a person and their ability to understand help as opposed to owning other peoples problems. It can be easy to get sucked into all that and make things worse. Assuming all that is reasonable, I find helping others energizing. And it exercises skills that may be getting dull or increasingly hard to relate to. FWIW