1. You have to do what makes you happy and comfortable 2. Do not I repeat DO NOT let yourself be bullied by anyone who makes snide comments about what works for

1. You have to do what makes you happy and comfortable 2. Do not I repeat DO NOT let yourself be bullied by anyone who makes snide comments about what works for you The feelings you have are natural for a parent. Even if you don't work - you'll feel guilt over many other things. So here are some tips from a female who works from home. Try for a job that allows flexibility. Some of my best hours of work are from 8pm-12am. Instead of a 'day care' perhaps someone in your neighborhood babysits children. My next door neighbor has a little play group that all the mothers are super happy with and my son literally bursts through the play group door. He is ready to leave the second he wakes up. If your job pays well perhaps a babysitter who comes to your house while you work can be a possibility. They can also do light cleaning and perhaps help peel vegetables for supper etc. Your 18 month old will not stay 18 months old forever. So perhaps now you might feel a bit of natural guilt but children are resilient and your baby will be fine. My mom worked all through our childhood and we had no resentment issues ever. Just make sure to give your baby lots of love and as much attention as you can. Again - do not allow others to dictate how you feel. Do what works for you.