The gist of my point wasn't that women don't necessarily care about clothes and hairstyles and so on (of course they do) as much as it was that I don't care tha

The gist of my point wasn't that women don't necessarily care about clothes and hairstyles and so on (of course they do) as much as it was that I don't care that they care. You can dress nice and look good without following whatever the latest fashion was dictated to society in this month's GQ and Vogue and unless you're really into primping, you may as well just go with a look that is relatively timeless. Frankly, you have to determine that you're living your own life at some point and stop caring so much about what everyone else thinks to the point that it impacts the way you even clothe yourself (beyond stuff matching, belonging to this century, and being clean). If anyone here, for example, really cared that much, they'd all be race car drivers and pro athletes.