my wife always tells me to not mess with utensils option (on any delivery services) as we almost seem to not get any. when we leave it at default, always get a

my wife always tells me to not mess with utensils option (on any delivery services) as we almost seem to not get any. when we leave it at default, always get atleast 1 pair of cutlery. when we specify we want more, normally end up receiving none. i have done doordash pickup. the estimated wait was 45 minutes. i called the restaurant after about 20 minutes as i have ordered there directly over the phone before, and its only been 15-20 minutes wait for phone ordered. they like oh yea, its already ready, we just punched 45 minutes into door dash just in case...