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Men leaving women with lots of credit card debt in the woman's name is not uncommon. You should reexamine your biases. It happened to a good friend of mine. Us

by novia 6y ago

Men leaving women with lots of credit card debt in the woman's name is not uncommon. You should reexamine your biases. It happened to a good friend of mine. Usually the children stay the responsibility of the mother too, leading to even more financial strain. https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/arianelange/coerced-debt-financial-abuse-fix-credit-score https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/arianelange/coerced-deb... Something else you'll notice about both of these stories is that the men went after women much younger than themselves, looking for an easy mark. It's easy to scoff at someone in their 30's or 40's not knowing much about finance, but these women were just 21 or 22 with the man 10+ years older. It is no young woman's dream to marry an old man with gambling problems and to then be stuck raising his kids when he leaves or is arrested.

sigmaprimus 6y ago
Well if it happened to a friend of yours then that settles it, or maybe YOU need to check your biases. Don't bother trying to brow beat me, it doesn't change the fact that the example given is bad, this wasn't a flash in the pan relationship. They were married with 3 children. So much for the idea of "Richer or Poorer" now that were in the "woke" times of 2020 I guess. I didn't say there are not women that have suffered abuse, possibly even financially, although I have a hard time accepting that one if they are in a civil union like marriage. Don't get all SJW on me like some kind if Karen just because I point out the holes in her story. Holes that I imagine the Judge will see too if the poor guy doesn't get railroaded into a settlement due to his being incarcerated and unable to get adequate representation. It's too bad her degree or diploma wasn't repossessed too. And any woman who feels she got stuck with her children, doesn't deserve them and doesn't have to keep them. Infact many of them just dump them on their aged parents to raise in their retirement. Strangely enough most times if the woman wants to, they can put their kids up for addoption and get off scott free without any court mandated support payments, unlike their male counterparts who are rung through the wringer for 25 years or more.

by novia 6y ago

sigmaprimus 6y ago

Well if it happened to a friend of yours then that settles it, or maybe YOU need to check your biases. Don't bother trying to brow beat me, it doesn't change the fact that the example given is bad, this wasn't a flash in the pan relationship. They were married with 3 children. So much for the idea of "Richer or Poorer" now that were in the "woke" times of 2020 I guess. I didn't say there are not women that have suffered abuse, possibly even financially, although I have a hard time accepting that one if they are in a civil union like marriage. Don't get all SJW on me like some kind if Karen just because I point out the holes in her story. Holes that I imagine the Judge will see too if the poor guy doesn't get railroaded into a settlement due to his being incarcerated and unable to get adequate representation. It's too bad her degree or diploma wasn't repossessed too. And any woman who feels she got stuck with her children, doesn't deserve them and doesn't have to keep them. Infact many of them just dump them on their aged parents to raise in their retirement. Strangely enough most times if the woman wants to, they can put their kids up for addoption and get off scott free without any court mandated support payments, unlike their male counterparts who are rung through the wringer for 25 years or more.