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I always find it weird that sex gets equated to other negative things like this. Same for TV/film ratings. And yet these days, even kinky sex, is pretty low r
by dm319 6y ago
I always find it weird that sex gets equated to other negative things like this. Same for TV/film ratings. And yet these days, even kinky sex, is pretty low risk.
- watwut 6y agoThe risk of rape or other non consensual act or blackmail in kinky sex is not low. Most aint gonna call cops and people know it.
- viraptor 6y agoDefine kinky? For some kinky is wearing leather, for some rolling in jelly, for some fake forced sex, etc. It's really not one bag and not the same risk. (Kind of like when people say "in Europe")
- zensavona 6y agoOne could also make the argument that to be participating in "kinky sex" in the first place a person probably has thought more about sex than the average person and may have more experience communicating what they do and don't like - making verbal consent and discussions around these topics more likely to have happened.
- watwut 6y agoIt does not matter how clearly you communicated what you like, if the person you are with decided it is more fun for him/her to ignore your wish. And in worst case, if you allowed that person to tie you, you really cant do much. And afaik, that is real risk in those encounters. Plus, people are ashamed to tell cops they participated on kinky sex, because they dont want that part of their sex life public. Meaning abusers have ideal situation in a lot of ways.