Hah, I was in your exact same situation a couple of years ago and when my kid was born, I decided to leave Santa Clara for good. I have not regretted the decisi

Hah, I was in your exact same situation a couple of years ago and when my kid was born, I decided to leave Santa Clara for good. I have not regretted the decision yet. Not only was I able to afford a decent home, I am happy that I wont have to pay an insane mortgage for rest of my life. What I definitely miss about SFBA is the weather and diversity of good food.