I think Robert Greene has some interesting things to say about this ("48 Laws of Power" for example). (I hope I'm properly representing some of his thoughts he

I think Robert Greene has some interesting things to say about this ("48 Laws of Power" for example). (I hope I'm properly representing some of his thoughts here) Clearly #1 and #2 are ideal. Clearly #3 is not (however there can be a healthy and superior balance between #1/#2 and #3). But clearly #3 exists, just as #1 and #2, and WILL ALWAYS EXIST. Power can be achieved through any of the 3 means, and it's up to each individual to choose their own path. What "geeks" (among many others) tend to do is close their eyes to the fact that this power struggle exists, and decide to not play any game at all. This leads to an endless frustration and mounds of material for whining. Note: I believe it is very unfortunate that most marketing exists and how ubiquitous it is.