4 ms·
if you can't figure this out on your own, what makes you think you can figure out the actual job?
by noemit 6y ago
if you can't figure this out on your own, what makes you think you can figure out the actual job?
- noemit 6y agocaveat: i'm not opposed to coaching for specific skills (speech/diction, video presence), therapy to work on your emotional issues that may be holding you back or taking a course to learn about something specific. Even if a promotion coach works it's a hack and not sustainable. If you can't develop a strategy for this on your own, again I just don't see you thriving in any type of leadership.
- junglesurfer 6y agoI think that's unfair. Having someone available to be a sounding board, or someone with experience to help you take the next step, doesn't invalidate this person's ability to be a leader. Leaders aren't simply born, or figure out how to do everything entirely on their own.
- auslegung 6y agoThis is ignorant and unhelpful. Do you think existing leaders don't have coaches? Whoever is the best leader in your opinion, do you think they never had and currently don't have a coach?
- noemit 6y agonot in OPs sense. they have a mentor or a sounding board friend, which is different. I love when people can't disagree without calling others ignorant.
- arenaninja 6y agoEach of your replies is combative or belittling, you don't exactly have the moral high ground. It seems you've misunderstood the request in my original post or lack imagination to comprehend it, because none of your posts are useful or even relevant
- arenaninja 6y agoI'm not sure why you've assumed I can't do this on my own
- noemit 6y agoi asked a question. if you can do it on your own, do it. you'll learn more.