Well, yes. If your point is that you are not compelled to share your songs you've composed in your basement, you are correct. That, however, has nothing to do w

Well, yes. If your point is that you are not compelled to share your songs you've composed in your basement, you are correct. That, however, has nothing to do with copyright and won't really help you with incentivizing either. Once you have shared it with someone, you can only control what is done with those copies under certain circumstances. And in that question, the balance decided by society is decidedly not that you have complete say in what is done.