> I can say that my child finding my emails after I'm dead is something I definitely do not want to happen. That makes sense(funny?), I suppose it is different

> I can say that my child finding my emails after I'm dead is something I definitely do not want to happen. That makes sense(funny?), I suppose it is different if you have a relatively active/recent relationship. Hope the illness is worked out. Also yeah, it is your own private details I get that, I wouldn't ask my friend if I could see their email. Just in my case it was the only potential record of my dad's thoughts.