I have genuine relationships with people, but some days I can't remember how old I am. You might be both overthinking it, and overestimating some of the people

I have genuine relationships with people, but some days I can't remember how old I am. You might be both overthinking it, and overestimating some of the people who would use this. I put friends birthdays in my Google calendar. It's not because I don't care about them enough to remember it. It's because I care enough to work around my own failings for them.