There also the option (I think it's Wifi only) where you can mark the connection as "metered connection" and it turns off a whole bunch of automated nonsense.

There also the option (I think it's Wifi only) where you can mark the connection as "metered connection" and it turns off a whole bunch of automated nonsense. Same as you, I periodically turn off the metered connection toggle and then run updates. It saves me a heap of angst.