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> I think you need to start a family! What an irresponsible advise, given that you factored out the importance of the relationship with the significant other.
by rualca 6y ago
> I think you need to start a family!
What an irresponsible advise, given that you factored out the importance of the relationship with the significant other.
"Just find the love of your life!"
"Just live happily ever after!"
I mean, you don't even care if someone's personality and mental state allows for that. A family is not a retinue waiting on you to fullfil your every need, is it?
If starting a family was a silver bullet then we wouldn't see such a high rate of divorce and so many kids screwed up because their parents divorce sucked.
- seibelj 6y agoWow! You sound miserable
- rualca 6y agoPersonally I'm doing very well, but this line of argument sounds an awful lot like "letting them eat cake". I mean, the assumption alone that people never thought of something like starting a family is mind-boggingly idiotic and presumptuous, as it assumed everyone around is just a mindless NPC.