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> otherwise it’s just a savior complex. Or maybe just reaching out a helping hand to fellow human being that's apparently in need? If that leads to everybody i
by freeflight 6y ago
> otherwise it’s just a savior complex.
Or maybe just reaching out a helping hand to fellow human being that's apparently in need? If that leads to everybody involved being even slightly better off, why should that be considered some kind of negative complex?
On that front, human pride and societal norms can be very weird beasts: Way too many people who would really need the help of somebody else, often are either too proud or too scared to actually ask for that helping hand. Too hard-coded is the fear of appearing vulnerable/embarrassed, particularly in-front of strangers.
At least that's something I've noticed in Western societies, where begging (which is also a form of asking) is often considered some kind of scam and with demands to never support it by actually giving anything.
- jelliclesfarm 6y agoSure. Everyone should do that which feels right to them. There is no universal rule. I was just sharing why my lived experience makes me less susceptible to knee jerk automatic charity that relies on reading outward signaling. Everyone is different.